Gee Carole, you need a surgical procedure for your *foot in the mouth * operation? Try the one I need ( often) whereas yours are feet, mine might be classified as 2x4's... It doesnt seem to me that anything you say, or have said, can be described as offensive whereas I have stepped on a few toes...I tend to tread where there are signs that say * stay off the grass* , but they are turned around so I can't see them.. That could be called a handicap could't it ? That is a good excuse anyhow .. :) audrey... *seattle* friend of pwp aussie john 48/dx 8 :) ----- Original Message ----- From: janet marie paterson <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2000 10:38 PM Subject: Re: Sir James / emotions / with a 'hey' to bill harrington > At 06:55 PM 2000/02/12 -0500, carole wrote: > >Hi Audrey: I think Parkinsonians are notoriously prickly, > >but perhaps that is a common denominator in ANY > >individual with a chronic, progressive, incurable > >disease.We're not always good company. We are easy to spin > >out of control. Especially when someone is pushing our > >buttons. Which is why I am TRYING to learn to count to 10 > >(make that 110) before opening my mouth (or responding to > >an E-mail) So I won't require further surgical intervention > >re: > >foot-in-mouth... Carole > > > if i may add a small corollary to carole's comments > emotions and even tears seem to rise much closer to the surface > once a previously 'normal' human has crossed into the 'parkie zone' > > [something to do with dopamine aka the 'feel-good-brain-chemical'] > [which is also implicated in some forms of addiction] > [that was the 'hey'!] > > rose lane said something like: > we may think we are responsible for the way others treat us > but we can only be responsible for the way we treat others > > IF i am able to absorb that concept in all of its layers > i find that all those old 'buttons' which can be so vulnerable to being 'pushed' > have miraculously disappeared > > [but some days that's a mighty big 'if'...] > > Emotions R Us > > janet > > janet paterson > 52 now / 41 dx / 37 onset > a new voice: http://www.geocities.com/janet313/ > 613 256 8340 PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario Canada K0A 1A0 >