Listmembers - Quite honestly I'm glad to be seeing more and more Qs, As, pleas for info &/or help from kids of PWP - As I've said before, none of us, really, can imagine what it's like to watch our spouse go through this illness, but as a child of... we deal with our own set of issues - Martha - this is a great place to be - it's like walking into the lobby of a building and having someone greet you with an immediate smile, give you a detailed diagram of the building and point you in the right direction - AND - the building never closes!!!! "Lurk" and learn... "Send" and learn... but above all - learn - education is your greatest ally and weapon welcome - and go to the CARE address above as well Cari daughter of Dempsey-PWP (71/16+) & Jo Ann-CGiver