Kristi - Some of us have good days and bad days. Somtimes the postings strike different people different ways. No one in their right mind would ever critcize or ridicule a PWPD, and with what you had to say, I believe you were sincere. For example, Hilary is a wonderful person and has contributed a great deal to the listserv. I, as a person who loves a PWPD, have learned a great deal from her, and hope to continue to do so. Just keep up your good work and continue to post every chance you get. Best wishes, Jo Ann from Houston