At 06:46 PM 2000/04/10 -0400, you wrote: >I LIKE this, Ms. Magnolia. Much like my "agree to disagree" >only a whole lot jazzier. Carole thank you ms carolia i like the bits about 'here, try mine!' i am learning that it always helps in communications to try to understand the other's point of view even just being open enough to consider the other's viewpoint can scrub a fair bit of grime off the perceiver's glasses lots of times that new understnding will make the 'disagreement' poof! disappear or maybe melt down into something more like a 'lively debate'! or maybe even a 'frank and energetic' discussion! janet janet paterson 53 now / 41 dx / 37 onset a new voice: http://www.geocities.com/janet313/ 613 256 8340 PO Box 171 Almonte Ontario Canada K0A 1A0