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>>> Posting number 72498, dated 24 Nov 1999 20:45:09
Date:         Wed, 24 Nov 1999 20:45:09 -0500
From:         janet paterson <[log in to unmask]>
Subject:      Re: joann / barbara

hi all

At 20:13 1999/11/24 EST, JoAnn wrote:
>Janet - thank you and Barb for the encouraging notes.  However, I am very
>perplexed about what seems to be coming through..  I thought this was a
>message center to help caregivers and caretakers, yet all I  seem to find
>is lambasting and constant criticism. ...

perhaps you did not see my response to george / sandy hough
which i posted a couple of hours after you joined
in re his comments which were almost identical to yours

>I know it is a full moon, and I
>know that sometimes  we caregivers can go through a great deal, as well
>as caretakers, but I just don't understand.  I felt I would get some
>help, but all I'm getting is "fussing". If I want that, I can just stay
>off the line and go back to my patient, and get more than I  need...

you may in fact have joined the wrong list
there is a separate list for caregivers

>I'm reminded of some of the notes "Howard" sends. They seem to be
>uplifting and understanding. He is a patient and if what he is
>going through can encourage we caregivers, why can't we encourage
>each other.  ...

we do, as much as we are able
but we are also human

i don't know who "howard" is - notes that he sends here?

>I guess I jumped from the frying pan into the fire.  I'll try a few
>more days, but if the mails are not more upliftling, I''ll have to
>resort to reading maerial.

i'm afraid no mailing list can guarantee any specific type of content
on any particular day

there is 6 years worth of material in the archives
ready, waiting, and available for the digging

>Please send this message on, as I don't how how to reach the general
>group.  ...

huh?
did you not see the subscription instructions in our welcome note?
did you not send in the subscription command and confirmation commands
to the listserv?

>The best to you and yours for a very happy Thanksgiving, and
>belive it or not, we all have a lot to be thankful for.  J.

funny, i used that expression myself just  a matter of hours ago
believe it or not...

you have inspired me to send in my canadian thanksgiving message again!

janet
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janet paterson
53 now / 41 dx / 37 onset
a new voice: http://www.geocities.com/janet313/
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