Cindi - You will learn as I learned. When I first got on the list serv there was a big "to do", going on and I wrote back basically the same thing you just wrote. Well, believe me, my dear, when I tell you I got a flood of sarcastic notes. So as with any disease we are all a part of, we just have to overlook the men and women who suffer PMS symptoms. I've used my delete button many times. Jo Ann from Houston