Camilla - I'm so glad you wrote to Cindi personally. Sometimes if we just try to put ourselves in others' shoes, we might walk a little differently. I, myself got little testy with Hilary, and wish I hadn't because she is going through so much right now, and her usual input is informative and witty. I think we need her as much as she needs us. Wish someone could talk her into coming back. Unfortunately, I got crossways with Janet the very first time I ever posted in November, and it seems to have set a precedent with her. Now I delete her the minute I see her name on the screen, because I'm to old to put up with such nonsense. Let her "pick" on someone else. It's too bad too, because she always came across with such good information when she was in a good mood. Anyway Camilla, you always seem to be so compassionate. Keep up the good work. Please forgive me for unloading on you. Jo Ann from Houston