William A. Parrette wrote: > Hi all, > > </LURK-MODE> > > On Mon, 10 Apr 2000, the digest contained: > > > Date: Mon, 10 Apr 2000 19:41:38 -0400 > > From: janet paterson <[log in to unmask]> > > Subject: Re: 'attacks'... > > ... > > i am learning that > > it always helps in communications to try to understand the other's point of view > > > > even just being open enough to consider the other's viewpoint > > can scrub a fair bit of grime off the perceiver's glasses > > ... > > Exactly! > > Trying to understand the other person's point of view, trying > to become that person for just a bit, trying to see things the > way that they would see them allows you to grok ... > > http://w3.one.net/~wap/wapGrok.html > > ... in fullness. Then you can act with the confidence that > you will be doing/writing the best and most correct thing. > > IMHO ... :-) > I agree that one should strive to write "the best and most correct thing." Twenty years ago I was responsible for the department which developed the specifications and procedures for typesetting journals. When I met with them for the first time I told them I did NOT expect them to write instructions that could be understood. After a short pause I added "I expect you will write them so they cannot be misunderstood. Joe Hertz > <LURK-MODE> > > Bill-- > ...who sometimes thinks that reality is an obstacle to hallucination. > (42) \ o o > o /\ o o > .___. William A. ....._..._ .......7177 Heritage Drive+---- >={)'> \ -+ > | _ \__ _ _ _ _ _ ___| |_| |_ ___ .Westchester........| \ \/ /\ o| > | _/ _` | '_| '_/ -_) _| _/ -_).OH 45069-4012......| /\ o / >={)'> | > |_| \__,_|_| |_| \___|\__|\__\___|.513/779-0780.......| >={)'> \/ | > ..... http://w3.one.net/~wap/ .... [log in to unmask] .......+-- \/ ---- / --+ > /