1 thanks to judith, michel , joan and those who havs been supportive both on and off list '' 2 apologies to anyoone whose feelngs i have hurt 3 partial explanation my children have all been taken from me my family is trying to put me into assisted living for no apparent reason, half the list turns on me. the time has come for me to 'get a life' i have joined a new congregation, m ade some new friends, and am exploring different aspects of myself . but fear not, I SHALL RETURN!!!