THIS IS SO VERY, VERY SAD !!!! As a group we are all people facing so many difficult challenges it is tragic that we can't meet in peace and safety on this list. How sad that one of our members feels she needs to sign off for fear of another member being less than kind and compassionate to all. Please, lets all think of how it would feel to be uncomfortable posting to this list in the middle of a dark night when problems are too much to bear alone. Lets learn to use that old 'delete' button to delete, without comment, those who offend us. It is much more affective than a written attack. Peace to all and to anyone needing someone to e-mail privately in the middle of that night - my address is [log in to unmask] Kathy