We are hangin in there. I have truly been enjoying my new(May2) grandson.Geo is doing well. He's walking 1-1 1/2 each day(weather permitting) We live in western Wa, so rain is abundant. You don't need to change your life. You just need to stop letting weird Janet have so much power on your mind. She appears to me to be a control freak and by playing her games you give her the control she seems to need. I know it is difficult, just try to ignore her and hit the delete key. Works well for me. Thanks for keeping touch. Juanita