Dear Janet-- I think this is right on target---in my professional life as a counselor I often told clients that actions were more determined by emotions than by reason. Understanding that helps...... >NewsScan Daily, 19 May 2000 ("Above The Fold") > >WORTH THINKING ABOUT: WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO > >Neurologist Donald B. Calne says: SNIPPED But reason is only contributing to the 'how' portion of these decisions; the more fundamental 'why' element, for all of these examples, is driven by instinctive >self-preservation, emotional needs, and cultural attitudes. We are usually >reluctant to admit the extent to which these forces govern our behavior, >and accordingly we often recruit reason to explain and justify our >actions. " Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio http://www.newcountry.nu/pd/members/camilla/one.htm <[log in to unmask]> also, on PDWebring at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html