Hi Marjorie--- Can't help with the quotation, but your idea is great. One family in our local support group did something similar---the grandmother/PWP spent a week well-cared for in a respite section of a local hospital, while the rest of the family relaxed and rejuvenated. Perhaps other hospitals are getting into this sort of respite care, as their in-patient populations decline? Also, when I had surgery and was unavailable for 3 days, Peter spent respite time in a local nursing home, and that was his preference to trying to have round-tht-clock help at home for that short time--b y the time they learned the ropes, I'd be back. As our population ages, this sort of help will be needed by many families, not just those of PWPs. >Now, to put this back on a Parkinson's subject, > since I have been living with a double edged sword--PWP & >Caregiver, I have a suggestion. >A number of years ago, probably at least 3.5 or 4 , there were several >Brits on this net, one wrote and told of a place in England where a >family could take a PWP and leave them for, if I remember correctly, >a week ,every 3 months. I believe week-ends were possible too. > This left the family free to get themselves >back together, so the didn't become so obsessed that they began to >feel that they also had PD. >Is there someplace such as that in the USA? > >IMOHO, I think it would be nice if some of these Parkinson's organizations >would think about doing something such as this. Make life more liveable >for the PWP and their families while we are awaiting a cure!!!! >Not all of us are ready for a Nursing Home , but its possible a few >days in a new surrounding might just help the PWP also. > >I'm fortunate that I have a widow lady who, for a reasonable fee, >will come sit with my husband while I go take some computer lessons. >I have 10 all day lessons scheduled for this Summer. >However, I know most people don't have that luxury. > >Just an idea, what do any of you on this Cyber support group think? >Good idea or bad idea??? > > >As Ever, >Marjorie >67/12 Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio <[log in to unmask]> on PDWebring at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html