Barb - It's really amazing how life is with each species, isn't it? The more you are around with each one, the more you learn about your own life. My daughter watches her horses, and their protectiveness of the one they love, and her ducks, who swim together and eat together, and when one is in danger, the mother always makes the most noise which causes my daughter to run out and chase off the intruder - usually a cayote. This is somewhat the same in the ones we love, isn't it? We can talk about them and complain, but by golly, no body else better talk about them. You are such an inspiration. We love you and needyou. Best wishes in these next few weeks. Jo Ann