>Janet, your words brought to my mind >a song I learned as a teenager. >No Man Is An Island., >The words are very profound. >No man is an island, no man stands alone. >Each mans joy is joy to me . >I cannot remember the rest right this moment. >However I believe the first line says it all! >Juanita CG for George 74/71/64 The song is a favorite of mine also, and was sung at my mother's memorial service. I heard it first on an old recording by Fred Waring's singers, and sing it now from our Quaker hymnal: "I saw the people gather, I heard the music start-- the song that they were singing Is ringing in my heart----- "No man is an island, no man stands alone. Each man's joy is joy to me, Each man's grief is my own. We need one another, So I will defend Each man as my brother. Each man as my friend. The title of course is from John Donne's "Devotions XVII" (I looked it up in Bartlett's Quotations): "No man is an Iland , intire of itselfe; every man is a peece of the Continent, a part of the maine; if a Clod be washed away by the Sea, Europe is the lesse, as well as if a Promontorie were, as well as if a Mannor of thy friends or of thine own were; any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankinde; And therefore nver send to know for whom the bell tolls: it tolls for thee." John Donne (1573-1631) Isn't this a good philosophy to live by? Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio <[log in to unmask]> on PDWebring at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html