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Bravo Hans!  Extraordinarily well said!
Peace
Pat

Hans van der Genugten wrote:

> ----- Oorspronkelijk bericht -----
> Van: "janet paterson" <[log in to unmask]>
> Aan: <[log in to unmask]>
> Verzonden: maandag 14 augustus 2000 2:51
> Onderwerp: divided we fall
>
> Hi Janet and all,
>
> >> i am having trouble understanding the logic
> behind the idea that some think that clinical depression
> might be more suited to a list separate from this one <<
>
> A separate CD-list might be useful for PWP that would like to discuss CD
> more than the average PWP with or without CD. As partners can discuss
> partner problems on PIEN, still some need a separate list: CARE as a
> complementory extra to the main PIEN list. Same with NONPD messages:
> although they are possible on PIEN, still some PWP need the extras of a
> separate list: SPARKLE. In both cases there is no case of DIVISION, because
> they also keep participating in PIEN on the other subjects.
>
> Now to the question why a listmember should have to limit the number of
> postings about CD, while other members do NOT have to limit postings about
> tremor, rigidity, constipation, etc.
>
> There is a BIG difference between CD and the other symptoms: you can't get
> (more) constipated from reading about it, you tremor doesn't get worse by
> reading about it, etc. But CD can be influenced (negative as well as
> positive) by reading (too) much about it.
>
> For the positive influenced PWP there can't be enough postings about CD and
> of course those postings are very helpful to THEM. But the opposite
> (negative) influence on the other group of PWP with CD needs our attention
> most, because then overload of CD-info can cause the OPPOSITE of what the
> presumed intention is of the CD-postings: instead of helping them with the
> problem of CD, they become (more and) more depressed. So IMO in the case of
> CD-postings MORE is not automatically BETTER.
>
> Hans.