In a message dated 8/13/00 10:33:08 PM EST, [log in to unmask] writes: << IMO if people disagree with Janet P. they should discuss the TOPIC of the posting and NOT discuss the PERSON Janet. Flaming doesn't solve anything. >> WELL SAID! Particularly if the people disagreeing have never met the person they are disagreeing with and only know her through e-mail. This is a very small part of all our lives, so let's not be so quick to jump on somebody because we don't like what they post, just hit delete and go on (or if delete is a problem, just go on to the next e-mail). Eleanor