Ivan I know you don't want to hear this, but I'm going to speak up anyway. I take offense to you saying a nursing home is a death camp. They most certainly are not. None of us want to give up our homes. Yet if there is no other option, then so be it. If you have used up all other options what choice do you really have? I do not see how the state can force you into a nursing home. Can you not sell your home and move into assisted living, rather than a nursing facility.? Get some one to help you that will not be running on raw emotions. Ivan we on the list can do nothing more than moral support. All of us wrote letters in your behalf not to long ago. Evidently this did no good. Just make sure you know what all your options are. As I said let someone else, better qualified than yourself handle all the ins and outs of this situation. Right now you are much to distraught to handle it yourself. Hang in there! Hugs and prayers to you! Juanita CG for Geotge 74/71/64