Carole - Just hang in there. There are good times and bad times in anything we do. Just like in any friendship, marriage or relationship, there will be problems, and sometimes one or the other has to be taken to task. Janet will be back. In fact, she's probably not ever left, but what ever, we need to focus on the main point of this listserv and that is to support each other. Over the years, I've learned that even though things appear to be "bad" at the time, that something "good' always comes out of it. Let's continue to contribute in every way way can and express ourselves the best we can, and know that what we are doing is for the best. I wish you the very best. Jo Ann from Houston