dear Rick-- this reminds me of custody problems that Hilary Blue has had, though in a different contaxt--not divorce. I wonder if your neuro has testified to the judge as to your condition? Could you offer to have your driving evaluated by a driving instructor? You don't indicate what part PD may have played in the breakup of your marriage, or whether there were other factors,and that may make a difference. of course. Would there be an objection to your having someone else--a friend, relative, taxidriver--take you somewhere with the kids? I sense that you feel her attitude is from anger and a wish to punish you, rather than being based on your actual physical condition at present. It must be very hard--have you considered some counseling to help with the bad feelings and explore possible practical steps you could take? Please stay connected here--- >Hi folk, > >I am a 38 year old man with PD (dx at 31). My wife of 11 years decided to >divorce me and began those proceedings about 16 months ago. We have two kids >- a boy, age 6, and a girl, 20 months. SNIPPED >How does one convince a court or anyone else that as a PWP that I can manage >my illness and that just because there are times when I refuse to drive >should not infer that I cannot drive? > >Are there any advocacy groups out there who might be helpful? > >Any advice would be appreciated. > >Thank you, > >Rick Barrett Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio <[log in to unmask]> on PDWebring at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html