S.Foley - My heart goes out to you. It's too bad there are people on this list who have nothing better to do then attack. The very first time I ever posted, I was attacked by a very familiar person, so I stayed on and lurked. I learned a great deal from PWPD and CG's Please ;don't go anywhere, because you will learn, not only for Tim, but especially for yourself. There is a caregiver's list, where only caregivers are supposed to post. I've been on it for so long, that I forgot how to get on it, but if you write the listserv, someone, especially Camilla, who is a caring and very considerate person, will tell you how to get on the list. Please calm down and learn as much as you can. My dear, you will need it. Jo Ann from Houston