Marjorie you are a marvel and it is no wonder I love you :))))) Never change how bluntly you speak as it is a talent that few have or have forgotten over time. You should be first in line as you speak from not only a long time with PD, but you state that your life is that important to you. I think anyone who is honest will not step aside and say * my life doesn't mean as much as anothers does* ..I would be very suspicious of anyone who seems to be that naive, as from our first breath we all struggle to continue to breathe. In reality, who is anyone fooling other than themselves? * seattle* Audrey friend of pwp aussie John 49/42/38?