I usually do not answer anyone for that same reason. I read all my e-mail. I am so glad that you wrote this message to that unthoughtful person. She needs to get a life. I am Linda from Oklahoma. My best wishes goes to you and your family. Let your husband know that I am one who cares and understands. I hope that he will take a minute and Please have him sign on again. We are not all the same. Would like to hear from you all.