i am in a quandary we have a major family event today - my niece's bat mitzvah my daughter has woken up with a fever of 101 symptoms of dizziness, sore throat and ear ache the family she lives with have had these symptoms during the last week, and treated themselves with aspirin and say they were better in three days. the question is - if she feels up to it, could we go to the bat mitzvah, or do we risk infecting the whole congregation / family etc any suggestions? hilary