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Dear Group - As most of you know, my love was diagnosed with PD in 1997, PSP in 1998 and CBGD in 1999. He was over visiting last week, and was on the sofa resting. . He got up to go to the bathroom, which is only about 15 steps away. I was in the kitchen fixing lunch, when I heard a noise. Well, you don't just run into the bathroom with a person you don't live with and after I got to the door it quietened down. I went back to the kitchen and heard the most gosh-awful thud. This time, I didn't care about privacy, I opened the door and ran in. He had fallen across the bathtub, and was leaning over the edge of the tub between his naval and his pelvis. Thank goodness it wasn't lower, or he'd be singing soprano . I have to make jokes or I start crying again. He had hit his head on the other edge and apparently slid down, because his head was laying askance. I called his name 4 or 5 times before he finally opened his eyes. I helped him out of the tub into a sitting position on the floor where he could lean on the tub. I don't know how many of you have tried to help a 6'2", 170 lb., almost unconscious man out of a tub or not, but it wasn't easy. He said he got dizzy (drop in blood pressure) and fell against the toilet tank, knocked the lid off the tank and slid almost to the floor, putting a burn on his back from the edge of the tank. He got up again, and got dizzy and reached for the shower curtain and missed. He had split his skin between the cheek bone and his lower eyelid and he was bleeding pretty good. I got a cold washcloth and pressed it to the split to stop the bleeding. He needed to lay down, so I helped him to lay on the bathroom rug. After a few minutes he wanted to get up, so I did what so many of you suggested, I got behind him, and put my fist under his armpits and helped him stand. Then I moved around to the front so he could put his hands on my shoulders for support until I could get him to the bed. Now I know and feel what so many of you have mentioned about your loved ones falling. I don't know about you, but it scared me so bad, I didn't have to go to the bathroom for a week. 2 days later he had to go out of town, and when he got back, he had a beautiful shiner. The wound had already healed. We decided we didn't want a repeat performance, so now when he gets up, I remind him to ease up, so his blood pressure won't drop so drastically. This is the second time he has fallen, both times in my presence, but the last time, he just crumbled, and didn't hurt himself, and didn't fully lose consicousness. So, we don't want anymore. Just had to share that with you and get it off my chest. Thanks for listening. Jo Ann.