Dear Marjorie--- boy, does this ring a bell ! In our case, it's I who can't hear, and because of Peter's Parkie voice I "hear" him say the strangest things sometimes---good for a laugh. As for absentee ballots, that may also vary from state to state. In Ohio there are some 8 or 9 reasons you can use one, including being over 65, being in hospital, jail, out of country, being a poll-worker, etc, etc, etc. We always vote that way now, as Peter hates to take so long to sign his name in the book at the polling place ! Nancy's question as to how we know our absentee ballots are counted is a good one---but then, how do we ever know that ANY particular ballot is counted? The system has to run on faith to a large extent, which is why the confusion in Florida is so troubling! Marjorie wrote in part-- >I think this is going to be one of those days!!! SNIPPED >We then drive to the park and as we are walking around I remark >to my husband that it has truly turned cold, (it was 62º on the back >patio this morning), he responds with "Yes, it looks as if someone >has torn it down". > >He goes to an ENT Doctor on the 16th. for an audio test. > >just me, >Marjorie >68/58/55 Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio <[log in to unmask]> on PDWebring at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html