Sharon Parker - I promise you that you are not the person I was referring to. I was referring to a lady who becomes obsessed with it about every 3 months, and inundates the list with it for days at a time. I feel if you were to know me, you would come to realize that I am truly a very compassionate, caring person, and many times have sacrificed my time and effort to making others happy and feeling good. I was a marriage counsellor, and felt I did some good in that regard. I was a caregiver to my mother, and also to my dad, who died within 9 months of each other. I also am a supporter/cg to my love. Perhaps if you had written off line and asked me if I was writing about you, you wouldn't have become so angry. I can verify the fact that Gibran was correct when he wrote, "The Moving Finger writes; and having writ, Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit, Shall lure it back to Cancel half a Line, Nor all your Tears wash out a Word of it". I, myself have become upset over things posted, sometimes because I didn't understand what led up to a particular posting, and sometimes, I flare up in anger, so I can understand where you are coming from. I stand duly reprimanded. Best wishes on your project, Jo Ann