On 6 Dec 00, at 13:12, Bob Anibal wrote: > I remember as far back as when I was a teenager ( 70 years ago ) my > mother calling her friends the " girls " and Lord knows how many other > women since using the term for their peers. I guess I live in a > parallel universe or something??? Some would argue that for females to use these words ("boob" and "girls") would be acceptable. I have heard African-Americans use the "N-word" among themselves, but should one of us Caucasians use it, I am sure that there would be a price to pay. As to what Maryse says about life being "complicated" in the USA, she is correct. The lawyers and the courts have had a field day. But, that's the way it is! Best, Bob Robert A. Fink, M. D., F.A.C.S. Professional Corporation 2500 Milvia Street Suite 222 Berkeley, California 94704-2636 USA Phone: 510-849-2555 FAX: 510-849-2557 WWW: <http://www.dovecom.com/rafink> "Ex Tristitia Virtus"