WOW!! What happened? Should I just say 'I agree', 'I disagree', 'yes', 'no' and let the members apply the words in whichever order they want? When someone wants to tell a joke that is sexist or racist, perhaps picturing those reading your joke as members of whichever group is the butt of the joke might give you some second thoughts about posting it. If that doesn't work, just DON'T send it. Humour is quite often used as a weapon....if it's not funny for everyone, it's not funny! In a world that has countries where babies are aborted if female, or killed or abandoned at birth, or sexually mutilated to protect their future husband's rights to a 'virgin' wife...or murdered by their husband or in-laws for profit....where the punishment for rape is death but the death of the victim (even if only a child)...in such a world, sexist humour is definitely out of bounds and unwelcome on this list. As to the direction the list is taking, I'm not really happy with it either. New members are getting less support and information than ever before. I welcome suggestions to improve the quality & decrease the quantity of mail. As to verbal abuse of members, I suggest that the first time it happens, the person be given a warning. The second time it happens, the person should be deleted from the list. We all have enough to deal with in our battle against Parkinson's...we really don't need another enemy. As I've been writing this, over 70 messages (including error messages from the listserver) have arrived in my inbox...my typing is slow now but not that slow! I hope some of them are positve. Barb =========================================================================== Barbara Patterson [log in to unmask] HSC 2J22 905-525-9140, ext. 22403 School of Nursing ===========================================================================