Hi Linda,
It seems that the way your daughter communicated her position was the issue.
If she had expressed her fears and concerns rather than just saying she
wouldn't get in the car if you drove, it may not have led to such an
impasse. Her position is actually understandable, especially if she knows
that you might be incapable of driving safely in an off phase (which you
sort of imply in your post). But she didn't present it very well. Sorry it
made you feel bad. Have you talked to her about it since?
Take care,
Rick
4947
------------------------------
Date: Wed, 13 Dec 2000 15:36:58 EST
From: "(Linda) (Albert)" <[log in to unmask]>
Subject: Re: this list
I need help, Sunday I invited my two daughters to lunch with my two
grandchildren. One of my daughters said who is going to drive. Well, I said
I
will drive since my medication had kicked in and I was feeling very good.
She
said if you are going to drive I am not going with you. I felt very
embrassed
in front of my family. I told her that if she felt uncomfortable while I was
driving that I would pull over and let her drive. She firmally said no. She
has never driven with me, I felt very sad and wanted to cry. I gave in and
let my other daughter drive ( who never said a word). I know that I have PD,
but I would never put my children in danger or my grandchildren. I did not
enjoy my lunch. So, at times people should understand why some days are good
and we say things that we do not mean. If I have hurt anyone on the list I
would like to apologize. Linda from Oklahoma.
------------------------------
