The list has become a living "thing" full of all that life has to offer. Of course life offers both good and bad. I think we should all leave the list alone. People come and people go. When someone is upset, concerned or angry, that is life. We all get our feelers stepped on from time to time, but as PWP we DO know how to deal with the "bad" side of life. My two cents say leave "The List" alone. It is needed, full of information, both for the body and the soul. HAVE A GREAT DAY... Paul