HELLO CAMILLA THANKS FOR THE ADVICE AND KIND WORDS - I DO LOOK AFTER HARV AND WE HAVE NURSES AND HOME CARE STAFF TO HELP WITH HOUSE CLEANING, MEDICATION, ETC. LAST WEEK HE WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL TO HAVE HIS PILLS CHECKED OUT - HALLUCITATIONS WERE VIVID - IN THREE DAYS AND HE WAS BACK HOME IN MUCH CONDITION. LIQUID MORPHINE TO KILL THE PAIN, AND OTHERS MED TO CONTROL THE PAIN IN HIS SHOULDER. HE SLEEPS A LOT. I'M COPING - OUR BOYS ARE WITH US ALWAYS - HARD TO BEAT . TILL NEXT TIME - OOOOOOOOXXXXXXXXXX Fleurette