Friends--ALL OF YOU---I am near tears as I write this, for I had thought that the sniping and hatefulness was now behind us. This Christmas Eve has not been a happy one for Peter and me---his dementia has been aggravated by the physical discomfort I have which have made me less than patient at times. Many of you CGs will know exactly what I mean. Far worse than the prospect of possible surgery for me is the worry over how to take care of him should this be needed, and you will understand that, too.. I tucked him in bed just now, with mutually loving apologies, and turned to the computer for some release and comfort---but most of what I found here was not very comforting. Thanks to those who have tried to calm the atmosphere, and to those especially who have overlooked meanness, deleted what didn't please them, and made allowances for the fallible humanity of each of us. I almost felt like saying "Goodbye"---but instead, I'll say "Merry Christmas", "Happy Hanukkah", a "Joyful Kwanzaa" ---whatever it takes to wish you ALL well . Camilla Flintermann <[log in to unmask]> On PDWebring at : http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm **** **** **** **** **** **** **** **** "... Meet people where they are now, not where you hope they might be........" --Christine Greenland **** **** **** **** **** **** **** ****