Pauline - Now that you've told the whole story, I can see that you feel left out and lonely - Not just entirely his fault, but you sound like a younger person who needs friends and companionship. I'm glad you are singing again. Want to come to Houston and sing at the church where I play the piano? We are always looking for good soloists. I'm good at giving advice, but not so good at following my own (which I'll tell you about in about 3 weeks), but just try to keep busy. It's the best therapy. Jo Ann