Charlie thank you somuch for your kind words. The thing about depression does ring true. I think I just may see the Dr regarding med . I do get out of the house. Fortunately George is able to take care of his personal needs. It is hard at times not to be irritable. However we are really very fortunate in our ability to talk about how we feel.We do have good communication. I just needed to get some feed back and of course some validation Thank God for the support of this group! Hugs, Juanita CG for George 74/71/64.