Sandy I would gladly receive roses for I do love roses. However the accolades feel good. These things we as caregivers do are for love and caring. This is my soul-mate, he has taken care of me from time to time and always loves me no matter what side of me is presented at any given time.Warts and all I am the light of his life and he is mine. I do believe this would be EASIER if I did not love him Today is a new day he seems to be feeling a tad bit better. The sun is shining.Really unusual in W. Wa. I got out of the house for a time and now I have my gorgeous grandson. What more can I ask of today? Thanks for the good words and hugs to all of you. Juanita CG for George 74/71/64..