BOING!!! <--- light bulb goes on over head, Chimes, bells. celestial organs play and angel voices burst forth making sweet music. Haaaal le lu yah! Haaaaaaal le lu yah! HAAAAAL LE LU YAH (throwing in a little Handel) <grin> Nancy...dear, dear Nancy. You have touched on the very essence of our mutual humanity. Thank you VERY much for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. Speaking for myself, you've given me lots to think about. Hugs... Barb Mallut [log in to unmask]