The drug Nancy refers to is DETROL, which is like Ditropan in that it "calms an irritable bladder" Another if Flomax (Peter takes this) which is supposed to increase amount of urine voided by decreasing the frequency. If the drugs don't help, then Depends can avoid the "accidents"--and June Allison in the TV ads isn't the only one who uses them ! <G> Camilla Flintermann, CG for Peter 82/70/55 Oxford, Ohio <[log in to unmask]> on the web at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.htm and also at http://www.geocities.com/camillahf/index.html "Ask me about the CARE list for Caregivers of Parkinsonians ! " And visit the CARE webring at http://www.crosswinds.net/~caregivers/index.html