Camilla, It sounds as it is a little better with Peter. Are you taking care of yourself as well? You need to sleep and eat as well. Can you get someone, like a neighbor, to come in and help you get Peter in and out of bed. You may have an agency that could do that for you: Peter may not weigh much, but he weighs too much for one woman alone to move him around. I am sure that Mimi is taking good care of herself. I will check with you tomorrow, Take care, Katie. [Tarzan is still lusting after Mimi; he wants you to scratch behind her ears and to tell her hello from him]