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Dear Marco, This kind of experience is so alien to my values that I can't even fathom how anyone can commit to marriage with such a mind. My wife was a PWP and a highly trained nurse, but I cared for her not because I was married to her, but because I loved deeply with a love that strengthened our bond over the years. I could never think of abandoning her at a very vulnerable period of her life. Yet you may be better off without such egocentric surroundings. The support from this list is wonderful but still impalpable so that you may have to seek counseling in your area and I am sure you will find and develop new friends...and who knows...........? Good luck Michel 'Carpe Diem' ----- Original Message ----- From: "Marco De Michiel" <[log in to unmask]> To: <[log in to unmask]> Sent: Sunday, April 08, 2001 6:37 PM Subject: A thought > dear friends, > > i just wanted to share this thought with you, which suddenly occured to me > this evening. > > This is, 'I'm actually glad i have PD' > > It has made me realize how shallow my wife's love is for me; I wonder if she > even loves me. Yesterday she said she can't stay with me because of the way > i've changed; she said she did not think she could ever want me again. I'll > be honest with you having been rejected physically and observing subtle > changes in her, one day when i could take no more, i accused her of having > an affair - which she has never denied. It is this (accusation) which she is > now using to verbally and physically abuse me. > > Where's the understanding? Where's the affection? Where's the love? Nowhere > because they were never there in the first place. > > Thanks to PD I have become aware of this and I aim to spend the rest of my > life with some one who truly loves me. My life is not over it's just about > to begin. > > It has also made me aware how little 2 of my daughters care for me e.g., > "dad, we've got our lives to live now". Too busy to even pick up the phone! > > I have found comfort, support, friendship and love in the PIEN group > > My sincere thanks and love to all of you > > Marco > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] > In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn