Maryse - I deleted your response about the libido unintentially, so, I'm answering on this one. The only way to enjoy it is if one can do it. Apparently, he is past the stage of doing it. In the meantime, it's my understanding that this, too, shall pass. You are a card - as we say here in Texas. Which means, you are funny and enlightening. Jo Ann ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn