Dear Friends---so many have asked about the service, and sent loving thoughts, that I want to fill you in briefly. I think our 13 year old grandson, Travis, said it all-- when I asked him what he thought of the service, he said, "It was nice--Grandpa would have liked it." There were nearly 70 friends and family , including Peter's next older brother, Ed, and 2 daughters of the other brother, Carl who has Alzheimer's and couldn't come. The members of our small Quaker Meeting did wonderful service in helping carry out my plans--I never could have done it without them. A woman who directs the local women's chorus sang "No Man is an Island", a favorite of ours which was sung at both my parents' memorials. The collection of photos I had prepared was enjoyed, and working on it helped me banish the memory of how he looked at the end, when he was just skin and bones. Afterwards, 11 family members had dinner at our home, (catered, so I didn't have to cook) and a great time connecting with each other. I feel tired, but peaceful, and so blessed by the wonderful folks who celebrated Peter's life with us. It was a fitting tribute to a loving and loved man. Thanks again to all of our net friends who sent messages---you have helped more than you will ever know. Camilla Flintermann Oxford,OH <[log in to unmask]> on the web at http://www.geocities.com/camillahf/index.html and also at http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/genugten/flinterm.html And visit the CARE webring at http://www.pdcaregiver.org "Life is eternal: love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight." ----Rossiter Worthington Raymond (1840-1918) ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn