Rayilyn - I have no answers. If I did, I'd be exalted. I truly don't know what to do, but I certainly don't want us to be attacked. As far as having a lack of understanding? My dear, I am probably 3 times older than you. I had a father is WWII, A son in Viet Nam, another husband in Korea. I've lived though the Hell of waiting, waiting, waiting ,and I don't want to have to go through this again with my grandsons. I'm not a warrior, but if this has to be, I'd rather it be anywhere but here. Sorry, if that offends you. Jo Ann ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn