Katie, I did receive your erroneous post and, forewarned by your followup, which arrived first, I tossed it unread. Whatever you said, I am sure your graceful apology will go a long way toward repairing any damage, and about "nice" - well, there's not a one of us who couldn't be nicer. Based on your posts, I think you are articulate, passionate, compassionate, and genuine. I admire your spirit, your thinking, and your writing. And I sympathize with your plight, having more than once clicked the "send" button in error. At moments of great chagrin, a cat is such a comfort. Let Tarzan ease the pain. :-) Kathleen ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn