Hi Sharon-- > -- it is clear that the family is pulling in all the right >resources--how maddening that your sister rejects the very things >that might help her to live a better life ! I'm glad the caseworker >(what agency?) is so cooperative, and that care is being taken to >minimize the damage for the children--that is a really heavy >concern, I know. The plan to try for voluntary/uncontested >guardianship would be good--hope it works. I would think there >might come a time when guardianship even if contested, would have to >come--and surely the professionals and family involved could >testify as to the need for it. I know about the strict rules, and whole I know the abuses they are meant to avoid, they are often not what is needed. One of Peter's nieces now in her 50s has a bipolor disorder, and periodically goes off her meds, and does risky things which the family would like to get help for. When she is hospitalized, things always improve--till she gets out and stops the meds again. One of her sisters bears the same kind of responsibility you do.....Sigh SNIPPED >Thank youfor your interest and concern----my initial responses have whittleld >down to pretty much you- and for that I am grateful!!!!!! Regards, Sharon We do care about this, and about you, and her family. Stay connected..... -- Camilla Flintermann, <[log in to unmask]> on the web at http://www.geocities.com/camillahf/index.html " Knowing when to insist, and when to let be, is, perhaps, a lifetime learning experience ." --Mary McCurry ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn