Don - You are a help to so many people, just through this list alone. Even your attitude is such a boost to we caregivers. If you can help that man's wife in any way without jeopardizing your own health - go for it. You will be blessed for it. Jo Ann ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn