Debra, Can I relate! I didn't marry an insomniac and my husband wakes up if I get out of bed. What happens to me is that I hurt so bad I have to go to bed and lye down. Then I wake during the night hurting so bad I have to get up. Mornings are the best for me... though I would like the definition of morning to change to say... 6 AM instead of 2, 2:30, 3:00 AM. Heck, for that matter I would even go for 5 AM. I must give credit to the DBS though, I now get average 5.5 hours of sleep a night instead of the 4 that I got prior to the surgery. I have found the different instant message programs to be the best outlet.... there are many other PWP's up in the middle of the night... everywhere. I even have a friend in Australia who is a caregiver who tells me to go back to bed... she tells my husband she is the cyber sleep police keeping an eye on all of us insomniac PWP's in America. I guess the way I have best dealt with the sleep issue is that I realize when my body is tired enough it will sleep.... it does pretty much whatever it wants to, whenever it wants to anyway... LOL... I don't worry about it anymore. My husband is doing better when it comes to my up time.. I believe he has worked his way up to being able to sleep about an hour after I get out of bed. I have made a compromise... I try to stay in bed for 30-60 min. after I am awake and he is up to an hour so that means he can get up to 2 hours more sleep than me a night. Now can anyone help me convince him of this arguement? LOL again! Sorry about this posting twice, the computer fired the first one off all by it's lonesome mid sentence. Deborah _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn