Rita - I'm sorry you are having to go throughtwhat some people think are meaningful questions and/or statements. The only thing I can come up with for a reatliation, is for you to say, "I'll be glad to let you walk in my shoes for a few days. Then you can see for yourself." Smile sweetly while saying it, and you may be able to retain a good friend whilestill putting them in their place. Good luck. Jo Ann. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn