In a message dated 9/20/2002 10:53:19 PM, [log in to unmask] writes: << Mine is black. When my doc told me today that "I was an inspiration and he would probably have given up" I told him I pretended I was already dead, (since I have no "life"), and being dead, I wasn't doing so bad. Doubt if this will help anyone, but it is how I get by. >> Hi Ray, If I think of you as Dead Woman, what comes to mind is Dead Woman Laughing...Swimming...Treadmilling...Caregiving...Letter Writing...Emailing...Advocating...Engaging...Responding...Supporting...Befrien ding. Not bad. Kathleen ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn