I am not sure if this was sent by you or for someone else that you know? From what you say, I don’t believe anyone has to or should sell themselves by what they have instead of who they are. Maybe I am naïve, but since I have met so many who are pwps, or who are cgs, or as in my case a friend of a pwp, I fail to understand why so many people don’t look beneath the exterior to what lies inside? Maybe a first impression is what remains, but in his case he seems lonely and is reaching out for a woman; one who is mature. I know there are countless women who look for a man who is willing to communicate in a real sense. I think that when one stops looking and is involved in all there is in life that relationships of all kinds appear. I know this sounds simplistic, but as a former cynic, I have found it does occur. Otherwise, I suggest that he goes places that women are; super markets, women's areas in stores. Ask women for help-- they love to have a guy think he doesn’t know it all. Be positive and act happy and involved in your surroundings. That is very attractive and it draws attention by another person. As a woman, it would be for me. Audrey Friend of aussie pwp John ---------------------------------------------------------------------- To sign-off Parkinsn send a message to: mailto:[log in to unmask] In the body of the message put: signoff parkinsn